Monday, October 26, 2009

Meet the Groomsmen!

Darren aka Dphizz aka Mr. Awesome

This is one of my favorite pictures of Darren and me as it captures the essence of life “back in the day.” No stress, playing video games, and having fun. I met Darren in high school, and although at first he thought for some reason I didn’t like him… we ended being close friends. Being in a lot of the same classes and both part of the bum wall crew, we kicked it everyday. When we were able to drive and go off campus for lunch, we’d always carpool and grab fast food. I remember one time we called ahead to order fish n chips during our physics class. Mmm fish and chips (I’m hungry).

Darren is my best man not only because I’ve known him longest among the groomsmen, but because we’ve been through plenty together and I consider him one of the most loyal, most brutally honest, and most considerate people I know. We may not always be super close or hang out as much as back then, but I know that if I call him that I can tell him anything. Nowadays, I look forward to those rare times I can play basketball with him and the guys. 4 what? 42! KBK 4EVAR.


Jayme aka J-Skeet aka Pinoy Passion aka Jose “Merienda” Servanda II

Allow me again to start by explaining the picture. I must admit, we do seem pretty happy here and this is bromance or manpanionship at its finest. One magical evening, Jayme was able to grace me with his presence while down for a trip to So Cal. We met halfway for dinner at a sushi bar in Westwood. As last call approached, sake showed up on our table and we got some liquid confidence to sing karaoke together (best duet rendition of Oasis’ Wonderwall ever) and take this picture. Basically, we talked, drank, and sang all night and the owners and hostesses even sang a song for us after closing.

If you know him, Jayme is pretty full of himself at times… but that’s what I like about him. He is very proud of his many nicknames (some self-given); however, I was always there to take him down a notch or two in college (ask him about that one time in ME122 lecture). Although we’d joke and get stupid dumb and hyphy at times, deep down Jayme keeps it real and has always been a good friend. “3 strikes homie!”


Greg aka G-Chin aka Gregory Terwiliger Chin

On one legendary day, Greg and I decided to go to the infamous Wet Pets pet store in San Pablo and here is the evidence. This local commercial aired a lot on TV at the time and Greg still knows the rap by heart to this day.

Greg and I first met as neighbors in the same southside apartment complex and ended up living together senior year in an apartment right across the street. We weren’t alone though, Teddy (R.I.P.) my teddy bear hamster lived with us too. Since Greg still lives in Berkeley working on his PhD in mechanical engineering, he graciously provides Sara and I a place to stay and transportation during our visits to the Bay. Whenever I see a Subaru, I think of Greg (since he gives other WRX drivers a thumbs up on the road). It wasn’t a trip to Emeryville Bay St. unless his old car set off a few parked car alarms. The broccoli roll at Sushi House in Alameda is his favorite. Ohhmyygoddddd. LRG. “Nash, pass the ball!”


Raimund aka Raimundo aka Ryan aka |2y4n

As you can see, Raimund and I are both passionate about Cal sports, especially Cal football. Nowadays, there’s not a Cal football game without a text or call from this guy. This picture was taken during last season’s Big Game against Stanfurd where I snuck into the student section (even without any of Raimund’s many saved colored bracelets). We are also both big fans of the best pound for pound fighter, Filipino boxer Manny Pacquiao. Raimund's definitely got the look for his Pacman/Pacquiao costume this Halloween. Rai is very family oriented, hard working, and funny. If you need shaved ice for halo halo or you want to see it disappear before you can blink, ask Raimund.

Raimund and I were both in the ME program at UC Berkeley. We had a lot of classes together and spent a lot of time in the library or at his dorm trying to make sense of it all. Although most of that was spent not studying, we somehow made it through. I hope our Kinetic Toothbrush and Stunna Shades projects will make us rich someday! Deeeeeng.


Andrew aka Andrew “sexual” Favor aka Favor Flav

Andrew is here with me after the PilGrad ceremony in Wheeler hall. Graduation was an awesome day, and what was more awesome were the days that followed hanging out in the Bay with him and friends without any cares in the world. Grad bash (not sure if Andrew remembers much of that night) in SF, Bear’s lair for beverages, Rubio’s for $1 fish tacos, SF MOMA, de Young fine arts museum, strawberry mountain at Nations, Takara Sake factory tour and tasting, Berkeley rose garden, concrete slides… just to name a few.

I will never forget the night I left one party and literally ran all the way to Andrew’s place. Let’s just say I had already hydrated profusely at the first party and I miscalculated how far it was, ended up on Shattuck, and had to run back a few blocks. This was the same night the notorious guitar hero picture was taken (and later photoshopped by Gilbert). Andrew is more than just ballin’, he’s “EJ ballin” to me. He was a model student, able to balance his studies yet still be heavily involved in extracurriculars like PASAE and Movement dance group. Can’t wait to see him tear up the dance floor at the wedding reception. Holla at my boy ladies, titas, lolas/grandmas ;) Slap… pound.. explozn!


Gilbert aka Gilby aka Manong G

This picture was taken during the most epic visit to Disneyland & California Adventure. We are both turning it on for the camera here, naturally. I still want a rematch on the Toy Story Mania ride! It was a hot but fun day with a magical evening ending with fireworks (if you know what I mean).

I met Gilbert in Asian Am R2A freshman year. Then we had E190 together, technical communication for engineers, where he presented on AJAX but he was most famous for Boondocks. Gilbert has a great sense of humor and always appreciates a good twss joke I make. Whenever I order hawt tea, I think of Gilby. Gilbert always looks out for yours truly, and is never shy about chatting it up on gmail talk during work, even though my busy status is on with some number of BZBZBZ’s. During a visit to So Cal, Gilbert was super excited about the wedding and being a groomsmen and I look forward to have him by my side during the big day. Deploy!!

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Meet the Bridesmaids!

Erin

Erin and I met when we were 2 years old in "Mommy and Me" school. We have been best friends ever since. We went to Jr. High and High School together and we won the "Best Friends" title in our graduating class. We were born 9 days apart. I think we are such good friends because we have a lot of things in common...we are both the oldest of three and often feel like we run the family. Erin works as a manager at Target in Camarillo and is currently vacationing in Greece. She is the only person (other than my mom) who cried when I told her I was engaged. I know that she will make the best maid of honor because I am pretty sure that she has been planning my bachelorette party long before I even knew that I was getting married.



Heather

Heather is my sister. She is 1 year and 9 months younger than me. Whether in brownies with Mom or Indian Princesses with Dad she has grown up beside me. We fought a lot when we were younger, usually over who was stealing whose clothes. We now actually enjoy being together and I am glad to have such a fun and hilarious sister. My sister graduated this year with most likely a perfect GPA and a degree in Nutrition from UC Davis where she also dominated on the rugby field. She is currently working on her Masters at CSUN and teaches gymnastics to kids with autism. My sister is very honest and often quite blunt about things and so I am lucky to have her as a bridesmaid because she will definitly tell me if I try on any ugly dresses.



Sommer

Sommer is my oldest friend. I like to tell people we are related even though it is a very distant relationship (her great uncle was married to my great aunt). Sommer and I went to Jr. High, High School and College together and we were roommates in Isla Vista for 2 years. Sommer currently lives in Arizona where she has been able to put her Psychology degree to good use as a Social Worker. Even though our lives are very busy and sometimes we go a long time without talking, when we see each other we can pick up right where we left off. I am glad that we have stayed friends for so long and as Sommer was able to survive living with me in College I know that she will be able to survive being my bridesmaid!




Megan

Although I had known Megan through Erin for a while, Megan and I really became friends in High School. At our performing arts school Meg was probably one of the most talented dancer/singer/performer's there. She now lives with her husband Evan in New York and I am confident one day I will see her name on Broadway. I was lucky enough to have her as personal NYC tour guide when my work sent me out there last year. Currently Meg is also studying nutrition in Grad School and NYU. Megan was my first friend to get married and I'm so glad because she is one of the first people I look to when I need good advice on the planning for our own wedding and I know she will contine to be there to have good advice in the future. We are so glad she will be able to be a bridesmaid and fly home for our wedding!





Angie

Angie is Erin's sister, my sister's best friend, and also one of my beloved friends. We both share an extreme love for puppies and kittens! Angie, Heather and myself traveled for a month in Costa Rica together a few years ago. Even though we were hungry and smelly and tired we had the best time! Angie just graduated from Cal Poly SLO with a degree in Child Development and is currently working towards a nursing degree. Angie is a fabulous and always positive person and I am excited to have her in our wedding!

Friday, September 18, 2009

Should you be invited to our wedding?

According to my timeline the time to narrow down the guest list is coming up and I am not looking forward to this daunting task. There is a lot of pressure to invite everyone we know to the wedding, especially when half the people who were not going to make the list think it is ok to flat out ask if they are invited! How rude! You'll know if you are invited when you do or do not receive an invitation. I would love to have a 250 person wedding but I also would rather not go bankrupt for this day.

While googling on advice on how to narrow the guest list I came across this quiz on CNN. The following 10 questions are used to trim that guest list and weed out the people you really don't want at your wedding ensureing that the people you do celebrate with are loved ones who are invested in your past, present and future.


1) Name the city I'm living in now (Good one to weed folks out, especially if you have moved a lot. Don't use this if you've lived in the same place for 10 years).

2) Name at least two of my closest friends.

3) Name my current employer and my past employer (Again, if you've remained in the same job for 15 years, this does not apply).

4) Do I have any kids?

5) Do you know the name of my fiancé? Bonus question: Where and when did we meet?

6) Do you know where my parents are and whether they are still alive? (Imagine a friend at your wedding asking how long have your parents been married when they divorced years ago).

7) Name at least two of my hobbies.

8) How old am I? (My favorite is when family friends would query, 'Are you 28 now?" Imagine their surprise when I proclaimed, 'yeah, 10 years ago!')

9) Where did I go to college? (Some people might not remember whether you attended college or even graduated.)

10) Name my last boyfriend/girlfriend before this engagement. Bonus question: if you can name the last two and why we broke up. If you get the bonus question right, that might automatically get you in.


CNN suggests the following to help determine who gets invited:

If you score 50 percent or below, you definitely are not getting invited.

If you score barely over 50 percent, you are on the waiting list. If someone who scored better than you cannot attend, you might get an invitation. This barely acceptable person who might be invited may get you a great gift because of their guilt for scoring so low.

If you score over 60 percent, you get an invitation.

How did you score?

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Engagement story

For those of you who haven't yet heard our engagement story (I know there is probably not many of you...) please visit the post on January 1st on EJ's cousin Wayne's bog at http://mamas-fonaciers.blogspot.com/search/label/Sara to hear a comical yet mostly true version of how EJ popped the question!

Monday, September 14, 2009

Welcome

Hello Friends and Family!

Welcome to our wedding blog! Thank you for visiting, we hope that you'll find all the information you need about our wedding here and will enjoy following along with our wedding planning progress. It's really crazy that we have under a year left until our wedding. I've had a long engagement but it still does not seem like enough time to plan! Hopefully if I do not get too busy I can update on planning progress and everyone can follow along if you want. Please check back often as I hope to add new details regularly!